Rejection and emotional hurts cause more pain and long lasting emotional pain that a broken bone.
The old saying of 'sticks and stones may break my bones, but words shall never harm me' is so untrue.
Certain situations or a thought can bring up the pain of rejections. It may be a look from an individual
or complete silence that cuts very deeply into the soul. The body aches and pains are many times the
feelings of rejection felt by the person being rejected. When children are bullied, it is the words of
their peers that can stay in the subconscious for a lifetime. Even though the bully has issues they
will probably bully others with their control even as adults. Parents can bully their children and not
even realize what was said was painful and make them feel unloved. It is now being proved by MRI's
that portions of the brain show the same response whether it is physical or emotional pain.
Life is hard, but it is still good.
The old saying of 'sticks and stones may break my bones, but words shall never harm me' is so untrue.
Certain situations or a thought can bring up the pain of rejections. It may be a look from an individual
or complete silence that cuts very deeply into the soul. The body aches and pains are many times the
feelings of rejection felt by the person being rejected. When children are bullied, it is the words of
their peers that can stay in the subconscious for a lifetime. Even though the bully has issues they
will probably bully others with their control even as adults. Parents can bully their children and not
even realize what was said was painful and make them feel unloved. It is now being proved by MRI's
that portions of the brain show the same response whether it is physical or emotional pain.
Life is hard, but it is still good.
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Still don't know how to do this.
Your thoughts are what's important and you are expressing them very well. Let's get together and I think I might be able to help with the format.
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